\u0130sl\u00e2m Dini kadar g\u00fczel ahlaka \u00f6nem veren bir ba\u015fka din veya d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce sistemi g\u00f6stermek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. \u00d6yleki Peygamber Efendimiz “\u0130sl\u00e2m, g\u00fczel ahl\u00e2kt\u0131r” buyurmu\u015ftur. Hz. Peygamberin g\u00fczel ahl\u00e2ka te\u015fvik eden bir \u00e7ok g\u00fczel s\u00f6z\u00fc vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\n
“M\u00fc’minlerin \u00eemanca en kamil olan\u0131, ahl\u00e2kI en g\u00fczel olan\u0131d\u0131r” “\u0130\u00e7inizden en \u00e7ok sevdiklerim ve k\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fcnde bana en yak\u0131n olanlar\u0131n\u0131z, ahlaki en g\u00fczel olanlar\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r” hadisleri bunlardan sadece ikisidir. Kur’an-\u0131 Kerim’de adalet, ahde vefa, affetme, al\u00e7ak g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fck, ana-babaya itaat, sevgi, karde\u015flik, bar\u0131\u015f, g\u00fcvenirlilik, do\u011fruluk, birlik, beraberlik, iyilik, ihsan, iffet, c\u00f6mertlik, merhamet, m\u00fcsamaha, tatl\u0131 dilli olma, g\u00fcler y\u00fczl\u00fcl\u00fck, temiz kalplilik gibi g\u00fczel ahl\u00e2ki hasletlere te\u015fvik eden ve zul\u00fcm, haksizlik, riya, haset, g\u0131ybet, \u00e7irkin s\u00f6zl\u00fcl\u00fck, as\u0131k suratl\u0131l\u0131k, cimrilik, bencillik, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, kibir, kin, k\u00f6t\u00fc zan, israf, bozgunculuk… gibi k\u00f6t\u00fc hasletlerden nehyeden pek \u00e7ok \u00e2yetin yer almas\u0131, Kur’an’da ahlaka ne kadar \u00f6nem verildi\u011finin bir g\u00f6stergesidir.<\/p>\n
\n
Peygamber Efendimizin g\u00fczel ahlaka te\u015fvik eden ve k\u00f6t\u00fc hasletlerden nehyeden hadisleri ise neredeyse bir kitap olu\u015fturacak kadard\u0131r. O sadece bu s\u00f6zleri s\u00f6ylemekle kalmam\u0131\u015f, g\u00fczel ahlaki bizzat yasayarak insanlara \u00f6rnek olmu\u015f ve \u00f6\u011fretmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n
\n
Bu y\u00fczden O’nun ahlaki, \u0130sl\u00e2m ahlakinin en g\u00fczel tatbikat\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturmaktad\u0131r. \u0130ste bu sebeple burada peygamberimiz Hz. Muhammed’in g\u00fczel ahlak\u0131ndan az da olsa s\u00f6zetmek istiyoruz(*). \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc O ger\u00e7ekten en g\u00fczel \u00f6rnektir:<\/p>\n
\n
Peygamber Efendimiz g\u00fcler y\u00fczl\u00fc, nazik tabiatl\u0131, ince ve hassas ruhlu idi. Kati y\u00fcrekli, sert ve k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fildi. A\u011fz\u0131ndan sert ve kaba hi\u00e7bir s\u00f6z \u00e7\u0131kmazd\u0131. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 tenkit etmez, kimsenin ay\u0131b\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcz\u00fcne vurmazd\u0131. Yanl\u0131\u015f ve ho\u015flanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir davran\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcrse “i\u00e7inizden baz\u0131 kimseler, s\u00f6yle s\u00f6yle yap\u0131yorlar…” \u015eeklinde, bu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 yapanlar\u0131n kim olduklar\u0131n\u0131 belli etmeden ve hi\u00e7 kimseyi k\u0131rmadan yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 ve hatalar\u0131 d\u00fczeltirdi. Kimsenin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kesmez, konu\u015fmas\u0131 bitinceye kadar dinlerdi. Tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 sevmez, s\u00f6z\u00fcgere\u011finden \u00e7ok uzatmazd\u0131. Kendini ilgilendirmeyen \u015feylerle me\u015fgul olmaz, kimsenin gizli hallerini ara\u015ft\u0131rmazd\u0131. Allah’a h\u00fcrmetsizlik olmad\u0131k\u00e7a, sahs\u0131na yap\u0131lan k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckleri, ne kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck olursa olsun, ba\u011f\u0131\u015flar, eline imkan ge\u00e7ince \u00f6\u00e7 almay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmezdi.<\/p>\n
\n
Son derece iffet ve haya sahibiydi. B\u00fct\u00fcn insanlar\u0131 e\u015fit tutar, zengin fakir, efendi-k\u00f6le, b\u00fcy\u00fck-k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ayr\u0131m\u0131 yapmazd\u0131. Her bak\u0131mdan kendisine g\u00fcvenilirdi. Verdi\u011fi s\u00f6z\u00fc mutlaka zaman\u0131nda yerine getirirdi. D\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fckten ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131, saka bile olsa yalan s\u00f6yledi\u011fi hi\u00e7 g\u00f6r\u00fclmemi\u015ftir. Bu y\u00fczden O’na hen\u00fcz peygamberlik verilmeden \u00f6nce “Muhammed’\u00fcl-Emin” denilmi\u015fti. Nitekim Peygamberli\u011fini haber verdi\u011fi zaman, iman etmeyenler bile O’na “yalanc\u0131, yalan s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor” diyememi\u015ftir. En yak\u0131n akrabalar\u0131n\u0131 safa tepesinde toplay\u0131p onlari \u0130sl\u00e2m’a davet i\u00e7in, “Size su da\u011f\u0131n arkas\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015fman atl\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n bulundu\u011funu s\u00f6ylesem, bana inan\u0131rm\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?” dedi\u011fi zaman: “Hepimiz inan\u0131r\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sen yalan s\u00f6ylemezsin” diye cevap vermi\u015flerdi. Kendisi b\u00f6yle oldu\u011fu gibi, herkesin d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmas\u0131n\u0131 isterdi. “Do\u011fruluktan ayr\u0131lmay\u0131n\u0131z, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc do\u011fruluk, iyilik ve hayra g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. \u0130yilik ve hay\u0131r da, ki\u015fiyi Cennete ula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Ki\u015fi do\u011fru s\u00f6yleyip do\u011frulu\u011fu arad\u0131k\u00e7a, Allah kat\u0131nda s\u0131dd\u0131klar z\u00fcmresine yaz\u0131l\u0131r. Yalan s\u00f6zden ve yalanc\u0131l\u0131ktan sak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131z; \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yalan insani k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011fe sevkeder. K\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck de ki\u015fiyi Cehennem’e g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. \u0130nsan yalan s\u00f6yleme\u011fe ve yalan arama\u011fa devam ede ede, Allah kat\u0131nda nihayet yalanc\u0131lardan yaz\u0131l\u0131r” buyurmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n
\n
Ras\u00fbl\u00fcllah (s.a.v.) insanlar\u0131n en c\u00f6merdi ve en kerimiydi. Eline gecen her \u015feyi muhta\u00e7lara da\u011f\u0131t\u0131r, kimseyi eli bo\u015f \u00e7evirmezdi. (*)<\/p>\n
\n
Peygamberimizin ahlakini \u00f6zetleyen bu k\u0131s\u0131m. K\u0131sm\u00ee tasarruflarla \u0130rfan Y\u00dcCEL’in “Peygamberimizin Hayati” adli eserinden iktibas edilmi\u015ftir. Son derece m\u00fctev\u00e2z\u0131 ve al\u00e7ak g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc idi. Bir toplulu\u011fa geldi\u011finde, kendisi i\u00e7in aya\u011fa kalk\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 istemez, nereyi bos bulursa, oraya otururdu. Arkada\u015flar\u0131 aras\u0131nda otururken ayaklar\u0131n\u0131 uzatmazd\u0131. Arkada\u015flar\u0131 her i\u015fini yapmay\u0131 kendileri i\u00e7in \u015feref ve cana minnet sayd\u0131klar\u0131 halde, b\u00fct\u00fcn islerini kendi g\u00f6r\u00fcr, ev islerinde han\u0131mlar\u0131na yardim ederdi. Methedilmesini ve a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 h\u00fcrmet g\u00f6sterilmesini istemezdi. Fakir kimselerle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp kalkmaktan, yoksullar\u0131n, dullar\u0131n, kimsesizlerin islerini g\u00f6rmekten zevk al\u0131rd\u0131. Buldu\u011funu yer, buldu\u011funu giyer, hi\u00e7 bir \u015feyi be\u011fenmemezlik etmezdi. Yiyecek bir \u015fey bulamay\u0131nca, a\u00e7 yatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 da olurdu.<\/p>\n
\n
B\u00fct\u00fcn islerini tam bir d\u00fczen ve nizam i\u00e7inde yapard\u0131. Namaz ve ibadet vakitleri, uyku ve istirahat i\u00e7in ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 saatler, misafir ve ziyaret\u00e7ilerini kabul edece\u011fi hep belliydi. Vaktini bo\u015fa ge\u00e7irmez, her \u00e2nini faydal\u0131 bir isle de\u011ferlendirirdi. “\u0130nsanlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu, iki nimetin k\u0131ymetini takdirde aldanm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r: “S\u0131hhat ve bo\u015f vakit”, buyurmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n
\n
\u0130nsan\u0131 en yak\u0131ndan tan\u0131yan, onun i\u00e7 y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc ve b\u00fct\u00fcn gizli hallerini en iyi bilen, \u015f\u00fcphe yok ki e\u015fidir. Ras\u00fbl-i Ekrem (s.a.v.) ilk vahiyden sonra g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerini anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman e\u015fi Hz. Hatice:<\/p>\n
\n
“Allah’a yemin ederim ki, Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak hi\u00e7 bir vakit seni utand\u0131rmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sen akraban\u0131 g\u00f6zetirsin, i\u015fini g\u00f6rmekten aciz kimselerin a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcklenirsin, fakire verir, kimsenin kazand\u0131ramayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kazand\u0131r\u0131rs\u0131n. M\u00fcsafiri a\u011f\u0131rlars\u0131n, Hak yolunda herkese yard\u0131m edersin…” diyerek O’nun peygamberli\u011fini hemen kabul etmi\u015f, en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck teredd\u00fct g\u00f6stermemi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n
\n
\u00c7ocuklu\u011fundan itibaren Medine’de 10 y\u0131l hizmetinde bulunan Hz. Enes: “Ras\u00fbl\u00fcllah (s.a.v)’e 10 y\u0131l hizmet ettim. Bir kere bile can\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131l\u0131p, \u00f6f, ni\u00e7in b\u00f6yle yapt\u0131n, neden \u015funu yapmad\u0131n, diye beni azarlamad\u0131” demi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n
\n
Peygamber Efendimizin bizzat ya\u015fayarak, uygulayarak \u00e7izdi\u011fi bu ahlaki tablo, hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcphesiz \u0130sl\u00e2m ahl\u00e2ki hakk\u0131nda bir fikir vermektedir.<\/p>\n
\n
*Kendisi i\u00e7in istedi\u011fini ba\u015fkas\u0131 i\u00e7in de istemek, kendisi i\u00e7in arzulamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in de arzulamamak,<\/p>\n
\n
*Oldu\u011fu gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek ya da g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi olmak,<\/p>\n
\n
*K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcklere sevgi b\u00fcy\u00fcklere sayg\u0131,<\/p>\n
\n
*Affetmek, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc davranmak, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kusurlar\u0131n\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131rmamak,<\/p>\n
\n
*\u00d6fkeye hakim olmak,<\/p>\n
\n
*S\u00f6z\u00fcnde durmak, ahde vefa g\u00f6stermek,<\/p>\n
\n
*Do\u011fruluk ve d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fckten zerrece taviz vermemek,<\/p>\n
\n
*G\u00fcvenilir olmak,<\/p>\n
\n
*Kibirden gururdan sak\u0131nmak m\u00fctevaz\u00ee olmak,<\/p>\n
\n
*Cimrilikten, tamahtan uzak durmak,c\u00f6mert olmak,<\/p>\n
\n
*Her hususta sab\u0131rl\u0131 olmak,<\/p>\n
\n
*Asla adaletten ayr\u0131lmamak,<\/p>\n
\n
*Maddi ve manevi temizli\u011fe riayet etmek,<\/p>\n
\n
*Allah’\u0131n kendisine verdi\u011fi sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131na ve s\u0131hhatine \u00e7ok dikkat etmek,<\/p>\n
\n
*Bo\u015f vakitlerini hay\u0131rl\u0131 i\u015flerde de\u011ferlendirmek,<\/p>\n
\n
Ve benzeri y\u00fczlerce muazzam ahl\u00e2k\u00ee prensibe \u00f6zenle yer veren \u0130sl\u00e2m ahlak\u0131n\u0131 her y\u00f6n\u00fcyle tan\u0131mak i\u00e7in bu konuyu geni\u015f olarak inceleyen eserlere m\u00fcracaat etmek gerekmektedir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u0130sl\u00e2m Dini kadar g\u00fczel ahlaka \u00f6nem veren bir ba\u015fka din veya d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce sistemi g\u00f6stermek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. \u00d6yleki Peygamber Efendimiz “\u0130sl\u00e2m, g\u00fczel ahl\u00e2kt\u0131r” buyurmu\u015ftur. Hz. Peygamberin g\u00fczel ahl\u00e2ka te\u015fvik eden bir \u00e7ok g\u00fczel s\u00f6z\u00fc vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n
“M\u00fc’minlerin \u00eemanca …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","template":"","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-4569","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.waynakh.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/4569","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.waynakh.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.waynakh.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.waynakh.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.waynakh.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4569"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.waynakh.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/4569\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4572,"href":"http:\/\/www.waynakh.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/4569\/revisions\/4572"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.waynakh.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4569"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}